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CREATIVE PRAYER CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE |
by Dr. Richard
D. Dobbins, Minister and Psychologist
S ome people have a very narrow definition of prayer. For them,
it is an exercise in one-way communication. They do all the
talking; God does all listening.
They give God His
orders for the day. And when God does not do what they want Him
to do, when they want Him to do it, they get very discouraged
with life...and sometimes angry with God. Such immature
believers seem to think that God exists to do their will.
But although God
does encourage us to make our requests known to Him, Jesus tells
us that many of the things for which we pray would come to us
even if we did not ask for them (see Matthew 6:31-33). In the
closing part of that passage, Jesus challenges us to seek first
the kingdom of God.
We want to take a
look at creative prayer from several angles: What is creative
prayer? Creative prayer can make you a new creation; creative
prayer can change the way you see your past; creative prayer can
heal wounded relationships; and creative prayer can help you
solve your problems.
What Is Creative
Prayer?
In Matthew 6:33, Jesus says we are to “Seek first the kingdom of
God and His righteousness.” What Jesus is talking about here can
be called “creative prayer.” He is asking you and me to
recognize the supremacy of the unseen over the seen—of spirit
over matter. Science has taught us to respect the power of the
unseen. The material secrets of the universe are hidden in the
invisible forces of nature. For example, take a look at the
atom. Once it was thought to be the smallest indivisible
particle, but modern science has exploded the atom. We have
found out that not only can it be divided, but there is a whole
universe of power there.
Likewise, the
supernatural is unseen, but it is not magic. Creative prayer is
tapping into the unseen power of God. It is God performing His
will at levels of understanding beyond our comprehension.
Hebrews 11:3 says, “Through faith we understand that the worlds
were framed by the Word of God, so that things which are seen
were not made of things which do appear.” By what power did God
create the universe? By the Logos. By eternal life.
This is the same
power that comes to us when we are born again. Through creative
prayer you can become aware of spiritual activity in your
thought processes. You can develop the ability to know the
difference between those urges, fantasies, and ideas originating
from eternal life and those originating from sin. Developing
this skill of discernment is basic to creative prayer.
Creative Prayer
Can Make You a New Creation
We never pray a more creative prayer than when we ask God for
Christ’s sake to forgive us our sins and enable us to be born
again. In John 3 Jesus refers to being born again. He says just
as we are born physically, we must be born spiritually. Until we
are born spiritually, we have no way of perceiving or
understanding the kingdom of God.
Until we are born
again, that part of us capable of responding to eternal life is
dead. Eternal life is an invisible power that emanates from
Jesus, to which the unregenerate are insensitive. When we are
born again, it is regenerated and we are able to respond to
eternal life. That is, we can become sensitive to the urges,
fantasies, and ideas that Jesus would stimulate in us. Second
Corinthians 3:17 says that as we see the image of Christ
reflected through the Scriptures we are changed from glory to
glory into His same image. Ephesians 4:23 refers to this as
“putting off the old man and putting on the new.”
Creative Prayer
Can Change the Way You See Your Past
Many people begin their Christian life with unpleasant memories
from their past. Often these memories leave painfully deep
marks. Although these memories are rooted in the facts of your
personal history, through creative prayer God can help you
change the way you choose to feel and think about those facts.
Friend, you do not have to be a prisoner of your past. God has a
new way for you to see your old hurts.
The story of Joseph in the Bible is a good example of the way
God can change the way you see your past (see Genesis 37,39-45).
His brothers were envious of him and wanted to kill him. They
sold him into slavery in Egypt, where he suffered
imprisonment but eventually was brought into a position of power
under Pharaoh. It would be hard to believe that, when he was
sold into slavery, he had a lot of love for his brothers. And it
would be hard to believe that, when he was in prison, he really
felt life was being fair to him.
You do not live
with the facts of your history any more than Joseph did. You
live with the story you tell yourself about the facts of your
history. And that story can change from time to time. It can
start out a bitter story and wind up being a better story.
Creative prayer can change the way you see your past. It can
give you a creative, redemptive way for interpreting hurting,
bitter facts from your past.
Creative Prayer
Can Heal Wounded Relationships
Genesis 32 gives us the beautiful story of how God healed Jacob
of the ill feelings he had toward Esau. Jacob had fled Laban’s
house with Rachel and knew he was going to have a reunion with
Esau. The last time they had been together, Esau had sworn to
kill him, and Jacob could not believe that Esau had changed his
mind. So he was accusing his brother of harboring murder in his
heart. All that night, Jacob wrestled with an angel, who touched
his thigh, marked him, and changed his name to Israel. And the
next morning when he crossed the brook Jabot and met his brother
Esau, Esau threw his arms around Jacob’s neck and kissed him.
Remember bridges
are built from two sides. Through the years God had helped Esau
change the way he saw Jacob. But Jacob still saw Esau the same
way. God can help you heal the wounded relationships in your
family. He does not want to add to your pain, but if you and the
other members of your family will let Him, God will give you
different ways of looking at each other. He will bring healing
to your wounded relationships.
Creative Prayer
Can Help Solve Your Problems
Creative prayer can help you discover and define new options for
solving the problems confronting you. It can help you define new
options for decisions you have to make. As you meditate in
prayer, learn to focus your thoughts on the matters requiring
some judgment or decision from you. Ask God to help you define
options for dealing with these matters. Then, in prayer, take
each option and anticipate what the consequences would be in 6
months, 1 year, 3 years, and 5 years if you chose that option.
Pray out the consequences of each option in this same way.
Then you bring
yourself back to a place I call spiritual neutrality. Spiritual
neutrality is the willingness before God to take any of these
options which He indicates to be His will for you. Tell God you
are willing to do that. And ask Him, over time, to give you a
divine attraction for the one that represents His will for you.
When you finally discover it, the option that represents His
will will be so wise and practical it will make you wonder why
you could not see it sooner.
My friend, are you
on talking terms with God? Is prayer for you more than just a
matter of giving God His orders for the day? Is God making the
supernatural practical in your life? He wants to. Creative
prayer can make you a new creature in Christ Jesus. Creative
prayer can change the way you see your past. Creative prayer can
heal your wounded relationships. Creative prayer can help you
solve your problems.
I pray that God
will come alongside you right now and help you open your heart
to Him. He can give you the courage to trust Him day by day and
bring you into His highest and best for you from this day
forward! |